Things you buy through our links may earn New York a commissionDear Ana:I have been trying this for years, in and out of all the treatment centers. Never managed sobriety more than nine months. I’ll have 90 days tomorrow and I’m feeling strong. I keep coming back.Lately I’ve been thinking about becoming a single mother by choice, in sobriety: What does that look like? A question that requires the soberest of thinking. How do you juggle the demands of a child versus “putting your own oxygen mask on first”? Can I do what it takes to break the cycle of addiction in families?My first child...…Things you buy through our links may earn New York a commissionDear Ana:I have been trying this for years, in and out of all the treatment centers. Never managed sobriety more than nine months. I’ll have 90 days tomorrow and I’m feeling strong. I keep coming back.Lately I’ve been thinking about becoming a single mother by choice, in sobriety: What does that look like? A question that requires the soberest of thinking. How do you juggle the demands of a child versus “putting your own oxygen mask on first”? Can I do what it takes to break the cycle of addiction in families?My first child...WW…