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Pale Skin, Don't Care: What NOT to say to a pale person

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BEST OFI’ve written posts about the crazy comments redheads get, and one on the things women with long hair hear constantly, but actually, I think being pale is one of the things people find hardest to understand and/or accept: so much so that if you have pale skin, you’re probably sick to death of hearing things like…Just as redheads are constantly informed that their hair is red (You don’t say!), and tall people can’t go anywhere&nbsp;without being told how very tall they are, people with very pale skin are never allowed to forget what colour they are: as if that would even be possible. Strange as it may seem, however, most of us are well aware of the colour of our skin: we’ve had it our entire lives, after all, so, you know, thanks for the newsflash, but you’re not exactly presenting us with brand new information here – sorry!Or, even worse, “Wow, you look TERRIBLE! You should be at home in bed!”&nbsp;I just have to go easy on the blusher to find myself on the receiving&nbsp;end of comments like this, and if I don’t wear any makeup at all, people will be calling an ambulance before I know it. Because there’s nothing like being told how horrific you look to make you feel good about yourself, huh?You know, I probably COULD, if I was willing to risk skin cancer, but I actually think I’ll just keep slathering my delicate pale skin in SPF 110, if it’s all the same to you…If you’ve ever wanted to truly shock someone to their very core, just try telling them you have no desire whatsoever to get a sun-tan, and are just going to keep your pale skin, if it’s all the same to them. They’re be talking about it for days…I’m really struggling to think of an easier way to explain this to you…Yes, we could. But as hard as it to wrap your head around the concept, some of us don’t actually WANT to change the colour of our skin. Imagine!I’ve actually had people say this to me, and it’s just jaw-droppingly rude: I mean, you’re basically telling me my natural skin colour isn’t acceptable to you, or “good enough” to be seen, and that I should try to change it, just to please you? How on EARTH is that an OK thing to say to someone? Can you even imagine telling someone with naturally dark skin that they should lighten it, because “it would look better”? Nope, didn’t think so. So why’s it apparently OK to say it to someone with pale skin?I know people mean well with this one, and it would be fine I was, like 6 years old or something. Given that I’m a grown woman, though, and I’ve had pale skin my entire life, it’s just a little patronising to assume I don’t know how to look after it, don’t you think?Look, we’re just pale: we’re not vampires, OK? We don’t have to avoid the sun completely, and as long as we’re appropriately dressed, and sun-screened-up, we’re perfectly capable of going outdoors when the sun’s out. I promise we won’t disintegrate at the first touch of daylight (and we don’t glitter like Cullens, either, more’s the pity).Because, yes, the sole purpose of travel is to get a sun tan. I feel like such a failure now.(Usually said while grabbing your arm to compare colour.) It’s not that we’re jealous of your superior tanning ability, you understand – it’s that we don’t like being treated like some kind of curiosity or freak: skin colour isn’t a competition, after all, and it’s SUPER weird when people start trying to act like they’ve somehow “beaten” us in a contest we didn’t even know we were taking part in. (And wouldn’t want to, either, for that matter…You’re blinded by my pale skin, I’m blinded by your rudeness…Yeah, because if someone’s got pale skin, it can only be because they literally NEVER leave their house, other than under cover of darkness. Can’t possibly be because they just look after their skin in the sun, nuh-uh.Pale and proud: why I won’t be getting a tan, no matter how much you think I need one12 things people with pale skin will understandHow to be comfortable in your pale skinThe best fake tan for pale skinWhat happened when a pale girl tried self-tanning dropsHow I protect my skin in 100 degree heatThe best foundation for pale skin: a roundup plus colour swatchesThe ultimate guide to fair skin and how to look after itRELATED POSTSBEST OFBEST OF, DIARYBEST OF, THE AWKWARD FILESCOMMENTSSorry, the comment form is closed at this time.

BEST OFI’ve written posts about the crazy comments redheads get, and one on the things women with long hair hear constantly, but actually, I think being pale is one of the things people find hardest to understand and/or accept: so much so that if you have pale skin, you’re probably sick to death of hearing things like…Just as redheads are constantly informed that their hair is red (You don’t say!), and tall people can’t go anywhere&nbsp;without being told how very tall they are, people with very pale skin are never allowed to forget what colour they are: as if that would even be possible....

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